How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera on Your Wedding Day
On their wedding day, genuine moments of joy and love were beautifully captured, revealing authenticity.
Because awkward smiles and stiff poses are so last season.
Let’s be honest—posing for photos can feel weird, especially on your wedding day when you’re already juggling a million emotions, timelines, and family members asking where to sit. But here’s the good news: looking amazing and feeling comfortable in your wedding photos isn’t about becoming a supermodel overnight. It’s about being you.
As your photographer( and unofficial hype person), I’ve got your back. Here’s how to shake off nerves, embrace the moment, and actually enjoy being in front of the camera in Southern California!
Get to Know Your Photographer (That’s Me!)
Would you let a STRANGER follow you around on your wedding day, snapping photos of your most personal moments? Didn’t think so. That’s why it’s so important to build trust with your photographer before the big day.
• Engagement Shoots Are a Game-Changer: This is like a practice run, but way more fun. It’s a chance to get used to being photographed while I figure out what makes you laugh (because real smiles > fake ones).
• Tell Me Your Concerns: Hate your left side? Think your smile is too big? Spill the tea—I’ll make sure you feel like your best self in every shot.
• Trust Me: I promise, I know how to make you look incredible, even if you feel awkward. It’s kind of my superpower.
2. Practice Makes It Less Awkward
If the thought of posing gives you flashbacks to middle school picture day, don’t worry. A little practice can go a long way.
• Get Comfortable Together: Take some selfies or have a friend snap casual pics of you and your partner. Bonus: It’s an excuse for extra cuddles.
• Mirror Magic: Spend a few minutes in front of a mirror testing out your smile or pose. Don’t overthink it—just figure out what feels natural. (Pro tip: Relax your jaw. Trust me, it helps.)
• Posture is Key: Stand tall, drop those shoulders, and channel your inner Beyoncé and Kim Kardashian. Confidence looks good on everyone.
3. Forget the Camera, Focus on Each Other ( Not Awkwardly)
Here’s the secret: the best photos happen when you stop worrying about me (or the camera) and just be with your partner.
• Share a Private Joke: Whisper something ridiculous in your partner’s ear and watch how natural your smiles become. (No judgment if it’s something about your weird aunt’s dance moves.)
• Walk, Twirl, Kiss, Repeat: Movement makes everything look more natural. Plus, it’s way more fun than standing still and saying “cheese.”
• Look at Each Other, Not Me: I’ll be there capturing the magic, but the real magic happens when you focus on your person. You’ll hear me say often, “ I’m invisible, don’t mind me, I’m not even here LOL!
4. Ditch Perfection, Embrace Real Moments
Perfection is overrated, and honestly, some of the best wedding photos are the ones where something unexpected happens.
• Be Yourself: If you’re goofy, be goofy. If you’re emotional, let those tears flow. Real moments make for timeless photos.
• Love the Little Imperfections: That wind-blown hair or unplanned laugh? Those are the moments that make your photos uniquely yours.
• Trust the Process: I’ll guide you through poses that don’t feel forced. You’ll never hear me say, “Tilt your head 37 degrees to the left.” What does that even look like?
5. Be Present (a.k.a. Don’t Overthink It)
Your wedding day is going to fly by, so soak up every second instead of stressing about how you look.
• Breathe. Yes, Really.: Deep breaths aren’t just for yoga class—they’ll help you relax and stay grounded in the moment.
• Let Go of the Little Stuff: It’s your day to celebrate, not sweat the small things. (Seriously, no one will notice if your boutonniere is slightly crooked.)
• Focus on the Joy: The laughter, the tears, the love—it’s all going to shine through in your photos.
6. Dress for Confidence ( Don’t Count Out Style)
Your wedding attire should make you feel like a million bucks—not like you’re stuck in a straightjacket.
• Comfort is Key: Make sure your outfit fits well and lets you move freely. You’re going to be hugging, dancing, and maybe even twirling and we know how sunny Southern California can get.
• Test Drive Your Look: Try everything on together before the big day—hair, makeup, dress, suit. That way, there are no surprises (and no wardrobe malfunctions).
7. Laugh, Smile, and Just Be Present
The easiest way to feel comfortable? Have fun! Wedding photos don’t have to be stiff or serious.
• Laugh it Off: Trip over your dress? Let’s laugh about it. Those moments are the ones you’ll look back on and cherish.
• Remember Why You’re Here: At the end of the day, it’s all about marrying your best friend. Let that joy take center stage, and the photos will follow.
Feeling comfortable in front of the camera doesn’t have to be intimidating. With the right mindset, a little preparation, and a photographer who gets it (that’s me), you’ll end up with photos that feel like you. Natural, beautiful, and timeless.
So, let’s make this easy. I’ll take care of the awkwardness—you just bring the love.
“Ready to feel like a pro in front of the camera? Let’s chat about how I can make your wedding photography experience stress-free and fun.
